Slow Dating - The Tantric Way

Slow Dating – The Tantric Way
Time for genuine, mindful, and playful encounters

How about truly connecting with someone—beyond small talk, expectations, and snap judgments?

At our Slow Dating event in the old printing house in Hamburg Ottensen, we take our time: time to settle in. Time to be present. Time to get to know one another in different ways.

In a small, safe group of no more than 20 people, you’ll meet 8–10 singles—sometimes through conversation, sometimes in a moment of silence, and sometimes through a simple, guided exercise.

Here’s how the evening unfolds

• Arrival & Warm-up (approx. 15 min): You’ll settle into the room at your own pace and receive a clear introduction.
• Getting-to-Know-You Sessions (approx. 90 min): You’ll get to know different people through a variety of activities—sometimes lighthearted and playful, sometimes more quiet and personal.
• Open-Ended Wrap-Up (approx. 45 min): Over tea and light snacks, there’s space for free-flowing conversations, deeper connections, and—if it feels right—exchanging contact information.

You’ll be guided through the evening while still being free to move about—at your own pace and within your own boundaries.

What makes this evening special

• 8–10 genuine encounters instead of fleeting conversations
• A calm, warm atmosphere without the pressure of dating
• Activities that make conversations more lively and personal
• Moments of lightheartedness, depth, and perhaps even surprise

Some exercises encourage conscious eye contact or mindful, voluntary touch (e.g., holding hands). Everything is an invitation. You decide at any time what feels right for you.

Who is this for?

For singles aged approximately 35–45 who long for genuine connection and are open to meeting people in a new way.

Your hosts

We, Habib & Kathrin, create a mindful space where you can feel safe and be yourself—just as you are.

Answers to frequently asked questions:

What is Tantra?
Tantra is a practice that originated as a spiritual discipline focused on conscious awareness, presence, and connection—with oneself and with others. In the West, often only a small part of it is explored.

What does “The Tantric Way” mean in the context of this event?
We draw on individual elements such as mindfulness, conscious awareness, and clear communication. It’s not about esotericism or sexuality, but about present, respectful encounters.

What should I bring?
Openness and curiosity. Please also bring a bottle of water. We’ll provide tea and light snacks on-site.

How should I dress?
Whatever makes you feel comfortable. Comfortable, neat, and authentic—there’s no specific dress code.

How are contact details exchanged?
At the end of the evening, there will be about 45 minutes for informal conversation over tea and snacks. During this time, you can easily exchange contact information—if it feels right to you.

How many people will I meet?
You’ll usually meet 8–10 different singles over the course of the evening.

Do I have to participate in touch exercises?
No. Everything is voluntary. You set your own boundaries.

How is this different from speed dating?
The only thing they have in common is that you meet different people. However, the way you interact with other singles is completely different—with significantly more calm, depth, and variety.

What language is the event conducted in?
The event is primarily conducted in German. However, you can easily participate in English—we make sure that all exercises and explanations are understandable to English-speaking participants and that everyone feels included.

^{Note:
We’re very excited to be guests at the Yoga Studio in the Alte Druckerei Ottensen for this evening.
The studio is providing us with the space for this event. The content and organization of the evening are the responsibility of Your Life Your Journey.}